When I was 12 years old, I was driving with my dad back home from a classmate's birthday party. It was dark, and raining, and some driver trying to make it through the intersection when the light was turning red rammed us at 50 mph.To this day I have scars all over my body, and it took physical therapy to get me back to normal. My dad came out relatively unharmed save some minor injuries.
As a result of this, my entire life I was afraid of driving. When I would go somewhere with my parents I would be constantly watching the road, and I kept my gaze always to the outside traffic half expecting one of the cars to suddenly ram into us.When it came time to get my license, I postponed and postponed it, saying it's not really a "problem." It's just something I don't like, and you can always find alternatives anyway.But being a grown man and not having the ability to drive yourself, constantly being dependent on others to pick you up or give you a lift, or using public transportation which makes every trip take twice as much time as it would with car.
Here are 4 tips on how to overcome fear of driving.Take small steps and you will eventually get to your destination -- A lot of people who have a fear of driving simply give up using their car altogether. This is the way to perpetuate your condition, not to heal yourself. If you feel that you're unable to drive, simply use the car for short periods. Either drive around the block, or to the grocery store, or take frequent pit stops to make sure your fear doesn't build up. By doing so, you're conditioning your mind to gradually overcome your fears.
You are personally dealing with it. There's no better reason to learn more about driving fears. Gone are the days when people relied on their doctors to deal with whatever condition they have. We have moved on to a world where patients empower themselves with knowledge. In your case, knowing more about your fear of driving will help you beat it. Reading more about driving fears will also help you determine if that is what you truly have. It's possible that you have driving anxiety or phobia which exhibit similar symptoms but require different treatments. You can prevent symptoms from taking place or from worsening. That's because knowledge makes you self-aware and awareness enables you to determine whether you are experiencing fear. Upon noticing what you're going through, you can prevent your symptoms from escalating. Learning to control symptoms is also a critical step for anyone who wants to get over fear of driving.
Today, I have my own car, and while I still can't say I love driving, I drive everywhere I need to go without thinking about it too much, and I can drive freely on highways, interstates, all the places that once made me instantly panic.Hopefully, if your reading this and you also suffer from some sort of driving anxiety or fear, you will take from this article one thing - you'll never know until you try. I also thought I could never be able to drive myself freely, but it happened. And if you decide it's important enough, it will happen to you too.
Are you terrified at the thoughts of driving a vehicle? Do you make arrangements based on the availability of public transportation? If you or someone you love suffers from a driving phobia, you know how difficult it can be and how it can make even the simplest plans seem more challenging. Even choosing to live close to work does not always solve the problem as public transportation is not always dependable. However, the pounding in your chest, shaking, nausea, and overwhelming tension that occurs while you are behind the wheel makes it simply impossible to drive.
Some people only have trouble driving in rush hour traffic, while others are not even able to put the key in the ignition switch. Phobias are generally caused by one of three things; how you were raised, a traumatic experience, or being in a truly terrifying situation. A phobia can trigger the body's natural fight or flight response making your symptoms even worse. No matter where or how it strikes, you can overcome your phobia through hypnosis.A driving phobia can be caused by many things, maybe you were in a car accident when you were young and it left you traumatized. Maybe you do not even know why you are afraid. Do you tell yourself that you will not be afraid, only to have the anxiety return? This is because you are dealing with your conscious mind but the fear lies within your subconscious mind, and that is where it must be addressed.
Talk to your friends.The next people to tell about your anxiety and plans of getting over the fear of driving are friends. They don't need to know the past behind your fear if sharing it makes you feel uncomfortable. What you can tell them are the symptoms you're experiencing, what factors trigger your fear, and how difficult it is to deal with it. Do you experience panic attacks when trying to drive? Do trucks trigger your fear? Do you feel anxious when friends talk about talk about driving? Tell your friends about them. By sharing these details, they'll be more sensitive to your feelings and help you with getting over the fear of driving.
Talk to psychologist or join a therapy group.Psychologists understand the human psyche more than anyone else. If friends and family don't seem enough for getting over the fear of driving, you can seek help from a professional. Just go through the process and see your psychologist regularly. Listen intently to what he has to say and remain open to his suggestions. Remember that the intervention of a psychologist can only be effective if you follow his advices. If you don't find talking to a psychologist comfortable, you can look for a local therapy group in your community that specializes in getting over the fear of driving. The therapists who handle these groups are professionals while the members are also afraid of driving.
Within the group, you are expected to share your struggles and you can expect the same from others. Older members can motivate you with stories of getting over the fear of driving and therapists would offer advice like a psychologist would. This community-driven environment is highly supportive and ideal for people who feel more comfortable with groups.
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As a result of this, my entire life I was afraid of driving. When I would go somewhere with my parents I would be constantly watching the road, and I kept my gaze always to the outside traffic half expecting one of the cars to suddenly ram into us.When it came time to get my license, I postponed and postponed it, saying it's not really a "problem." It's just something I don't like, and you can always find alternatives anyway.But being a grown man and not having the ability to drive yourself, constantly being dependent on others to pick you up or give you a lift, or using public transportation which makes every trip take twice as much time as it would with car.
Here are 4 tips on how to overcome fear of driving.Take small steps and you will eventually get to your destination -- A lot of people who have a fear of driving simply give up using their car altogether. This is the way to perpetuate your condition, not to heal yourself. If you feel that you're unable to drive, simply use the car for short periods. Either drive around the block, or to the grocery store, or take frequent pit stops to make sure your fear doesn't build up. By doing so, you're conditioning your mind to gradually overcome your fears.
You are personally dealing with it. There's no better reason to learn more about driving fears. Gone are the days when people relied on their doctors to deal with whatever condition they have. We have moved on to a world where patients empower themselves with knowledge. In your case, knowing more about your fear of driving will help you beat it. Reading more about driving fears will also help you determine if that is what you truly have. It's possible that you have driving anxiety or phobia which exhibit similar symptoms but require different treatments. You can prevent symptoms from taking place or from worsening. That's because knowledge makes you self-aware and awareness enables you to determine whether you are experiencing fear. Upon noticing what you're going through, you can prevent your symptoms from escalating. Learning to control symptoms is also a critical step for anyone who wants to get over fear of driving.
Today, I have my own car, and while I still can't say I love driving, I drive everywhere I need to go without thinking about it too much, and I can drive freely on highways, interstates, all the places that once made me instantly panic.Hopefully, if your reading this and you also suffer from some sort of driving anxiety or fear, you will take from this article one thing - you'll never know until you try. I also thought I could never be able to drive myself freely, but it happened. And if you decide it's important enough, it will happen to you too.
Are you terrified at the thoughts of driving a vehicle? Do you make arrangements based on the availability of public transportation? If you or someone you love suffers from a driving phobia, you know how difficult it can be and how it can make even the simplest plans seem more challenging. Even choosing to live close to work does not always solve the problem as public transportation is not always dependable. However, the pounding in your chest, shaking, nausea, and overwhelming tension that occurs while you are behind the wheel makes it simply impossible to drive.
Some people only have trouble driving in rush hour traffic, while others are not even able to put the key in the ignition switch. Phobias are generally caused by one of three things; how you were raised, a traumatic experience, or being in a truly terrifying situation. A phobia can trigger the body's natural fight or flight response making your symptoms even worse. No matter where or how it strikes, you can overcome your phobia through hypnosis.A driving phobia can be caused by many things, maybe you were in a car accident when you were young and it left you traumatized. Maybe you do not even know why you are afraid. Do you tell yourself that you will not be afraid, only to have the anxiety return? This is because you are dealing with your conscious mind but the fear lies within your subconscious mind, and that is where it must be addressed.
Talk to your friends.The next people to tell about your anxiety and plans of getting over the fear of driving are friends. They don't need to know the past behind your fear if sharing it makes you feel uncomfortable. What you can tell them are the symptoms you're experiencing, what factors trigger your fear, and how difficult it is to deal with it. Do you experience panic attacks when trying to drive? Do trucks trigger your fear? Do you feel anxious when friends talk about talk about driving? Tell your friends about them. By sharing these details, they'll be more sensitive to your feelings and help you with getting over the fear of driving.
Talk to psychologist or join a therapy group.Psychologists understand the human psyche more than anyone else. If friends and family don't seem enough for getting over the fear of driving, you can seek help from a professional. Just go through the process and see your psychologist regularly. Listen intently to what he has to say and remain open to his suggestions. Remember that the intervention of a psychologist can only be effective if you follow his advices. If you don't find talking to a psychologist comfortable, you can look for a local therapy group in your community that specializes in getting over the fear of driving. The therapists who handle these groups are professionals while the members are also afraid of driving.
Within the group, you are expected to share your struggles and you can expect the same from others. Older members can motivate you with stories of getting over the fear of driving and therapists would offer advice like a psychologist would. This community-driven environment is highly supportive and ideal for people who feel more comfortable with groups.
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