It's not about being the most dominant guy. It's about being the most creative guy and taking risks. Creativity comes before dominance because the creative guy can adapt to situations and make things fun and pull people into an emotionally driven world. The creative guy can create dominance by taking risks.My number 1 rule in text messaging a girl for the first time is to get her laughing. Usually I don't like to even get someone on the phone it's either meeting up with someone or text messaging.Do you ever wonder why women always watch drama filled TV shows on the LIFETIME network or even prime time TV? It's because all women love drama whether they admit to it or not, in fact most women will say to your face that they despise drama despite the fact they are creating whirlwinds of it in their own lives, like moths to a flame they cannot help the irresistible urge to go to where the drama is.
With that being said, the key to texting a girl is not to over do it. You don't want to be texting her all day, everyday. Even if she text you back every single time, it still lowers your value and make it seem like you have nothing better going on in your life.Now I'm not saying that you should never reply to a girls text right way. You can. Just mix it up a little bit and keep it unpredictable. Sometime wait 10 minutes. Sometime wait an hour. And sometime just leave her hanging.That's right. When ever possible, you should let her have the last word in the conversation by not replying to her text. By doing this you leave and open loop in her mind and it gets her thinking about you, wondering if you'll text back.
If you already have a presence or personality particularly if you are in college on campus you can use this one a lot more and without discretion, just make sure the things you are texting are cool and sound fun otherwise you will be considered social spam - just made that up.
The Mass Text Message is one to be used sparingly and it also must seem that this text message could be interpreted as a single private message so as an example you could say something like "hey, everyone is going down to the *bar* tonight would like to see your face there!"
A text conversation is not the same as an actual conversation. In a text you should only put the essential information, cut the formalities and jump straight into an interesting topic. The point of text messaging is not to get to know each other. The point is to reveal just enough to get the other person curious and interested to find out the rest about you in person. So, don't try to impress a girl with a long, dry, logical text. She will most likely not fall for it. Because most girls find logic the opposite of attraction. Remember what I said: spark her curiosity gradually and reveal the rest in person. After a few texts, you should suggest a meet-up.
And the important thing to remember is that your text to her should not be needy or angry. In fact, the attitude to take is that you didn't even notice that she didn't text you back and just start the conversation with some random thread.
This might sound funny to you but the truth is a lot of guys were able to win the hearts of women through text messaging. Calling can be a bit costly but if you send text messages, you can save a lot depending on your network. Texting is common these days and it's time to use this tool to your advantage.
Not over doing your text messages is important. You don't want to overwhelm her with too many texts or she'll get tired of them and you'll blow it. Most girls like guys who are not desperate, so you don't want to seem needy.Sending her a humorous text will help when trying to connect. You need to know some special tricks for humor which are covered in the eBook below.
If you want to ask for a date, try to tell her that you're planning to do something and it would a lot of fun if she joins you. You don't have to talk seriously all the time because this can be boring over time; instead, try to have fun even when you're texting. Never linger too long. If you have a lot of fun in changing message over the phone, you can end the night with a good excuse. This will leave her thinking about you all night long. It's up to you whether you will let her send the last message for the night or you can send it. Don't forget to tell her that she'll hear from you soon.
Now that you know the things you should do, you should also be aware of the things that you need to avoid. Never reveal too much about yourself in the text messages. It's fine that you ask her questions but be sure to get a lot of questions in return. You don't have to answer all her queries but make it polite. You should always maintain a good etiquette even over the phone. If the girl does not reply to your text messages, don't text her with bad words or statements. Again, be patient. Who knows, perhaps her phone does not have enough credits to reply to your messages or she's busy at the moment.
[How To Text A Girl You Like]
With that being said, the key to texting a girl is not to over do it. You don't want to be texting her all day, everyday. Even if she text you back every single time, it still lowers your value and make it seem like you have nothing better going on in your life.Now I'm not saying that you should never reply to a girls text right way. You can. Just mix it up a little bit and keep it unpredictable. Sometime wait 10 minutes. Sometime wait an hour. And sometime just leave her hanging.That's right. When ever possible, you should let her have the last word in the conversation by not replying to her text. By doing this you leave and open loop in her mind and it gets her thinking about you, wondering if you'll text back.
If you already have a presence or personality particularly if you are in college on campus you can use this one a lot more and without discretion, just make sure the things you are texting are cool and sound fun otherwise you will be considered social spam - just made that up.
The Mass Text Message is one to be used sparingly and it also must seem that this text message could be interpreted as a single private message so as an example you could say something like "hey, everyone is going down to the *bar* tonight would like to see your face there!"
A text conversation is not the same as an actual conversation. In a text you should only put the essential information, cut the formalities and jump straight into an interesting topic. The point of text messaging is not to get to know each other. The point is to reveal just enough to get the other person curious and interested to find out the rest about you in person. So, don't try to impress a girl with a long, dry, logical text. She will most likely not fall for it. Because most girls find logic the opposite of attraction. Remember what I said: spark her curiosity gradually and reveal the rest in person. After a few texts, you should suggest a meet-up.
And the important thing to remember is that your text to her should not be needy or angry. In fact, the attitude to take is that you didn't even notice that she didn't text you back and just start the conversation with some random thread.
This might sound funny to you but the truth is a lot of guys were able to win the hearts of women through text messaging. Calling can be a bit costly but if you send text messages, you can save a lot depending on your network. Texting is common these days and it's time to use this tool to your advantage.
Not over doing your text messages is important. You don't want to overwhelm her with too many texts or she'll get tired of them and you'll blow it. Most girls like guys who are not desperate, so you don't want to seem needy.Sending her a humorous text will help when trying to connect. You need to know some special tricks for humor which are covered in the eBook below.
If you want to ask for a date, try to tell her that you're planning to do something and it would a lot of fun if she joins you. You don't have to talk seriously all the time because this can be boring over time; instead, try to have fun even when you're texting. Never linger too long. If you have a lot of fun in changing message over the phone, you can end the night with a good excuse. This will leave her thinking about you all night long. It's up to you whether you will let her send the last message for the night or you can send it. Don't forget to tell her that she'll hear from you soon.
Now that you know the things you should do, you should also be aware of the things that you need to avoid. Never reveal too much about yourself in the text messages. It's fine that you ask her questions but be sure to get a lot of questions in return. You don't have to answer all her queries but make it polite. You should always maintain a good etiquette even over the phone. If the girl does not reply to your text messages, don't text her with bad words or statements. Again, be patient. Who knows, perhaps her phone does not have enough credits to reply to your messages or she's busy at the moment.
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